Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Grief and sadnes

It's been three days since my brother in law passed away... the funeral is this Saturday

Two months ago i dedicated a post to my sister in law Liz
Both Liz and now Andrew are my husbands older siblings

Wanted to dedicate this blog to Andrew and write ho bad the new year 2014 has began for us, but one look at my husband today morning has changed my mind.

I took my phone wanting to  call a friend of his to come and hang out so he wouldnt be so sad (i know it wount remove the sadness but it would make it less heavy) then it hit me...i have'nt seen any of them, for a man who has over 800 face book friends not even having 3 guys/friends visit to mourn with him (in Africa/kenya people come every evening to make tea and sit in silence with you, sharing your grief)

It breaks my heart, so today i dedicte this blog to anyone who has lost a loved one or two in such a short span of time and feels alone
We mourn with you, we grieve with you

Andrew (Etenk) Amoyo
May you find strength and Grace to face every day, to help you do what you need to

Cheers
Naomi